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Welcome to the website of the Interchurch Families International Network.

(Feature article can be found below.)

This site provides rich resources for the journey to Chrtistian unity which interchurch families live. Of these, the Journal, produced over a period of more than 10 years, and reflecting the experiences of interchurch families and the theology which undergirds their journey, must be counted among the most valuable.

The Interchurch Families International Discussion Group enables us to share joys and sorrows, to discuss ways of dealing with immediate issues which arise as a consequence of living our marital unity within churches which are divided.  Feel free to join.

Enjoy and, if you have comments or questions, please contact me, Ray Temmerman, at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..


This article was published in the Summer 1990 issue of The Journal.

Mixed Marriages Spearhead the Interchurch Process

At the end of his first six months as Diocesan Ecumenical Officer for the Anglican Diocese of Manchester, lan Walter contributed an article under this heading to the diocesan newsletter (a centrepiece for inclusion in parish magazines). He wrote of the Inter Church Process and of Local Ecumenical Projects, and continued as follows:

Even these Local Ecumenical Projects are still on a relatively large scale. They may affect us at Sunday worship or at weekday evening meetings, but most of us can leave them and go home. We can often keep our relationships with Christians of other churches in a special compartment, separate from our regular devotions, let alone from our everyday lives.

However, there are families where this is not possible. There are those where husband and wife are both committed, practising Christians, yet from different denominations. Many couples from different religious traditions relegate their faith to the background of their marriages, but there are also many who refuse to let the Church's divisions mar what they share and who seek to build up a united christian family.

Recently I met a number of such couples at a meeting of the Association of Interchurch Families. They told what was by turns a sad and a triumphant story of how they struggled to win recognition from their churches for their own ecumenical pilgrimage. It could be heart-rending to hear of the problems surrounding say, their weddings or the baptisms of their children. But what impressed and encouraged me was how they were not to be put off, how they did not take the easy way out and say "A plague on both your houses". Instead, convinced of God's will to reconcile his separated people, they strove to join both christian traditions in their own lives.

It is this kind of determination that will be needed if the unity we talk about on the grand scale, is to find its place in every home and parish. So when you pray for the fulfilment of Jesus' prayer, "that they may all be one", please pray especially for husbands, wives and children who are in the front line of the struggle for unity. Pray for the Association of Interchurch Families which supports them.

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